Healthy Men Helping Men Grow Safer Relationships

This discussion guide is written for men to facilitate with men who care about the safety and wellbeing of women and children, but who may feel unsure about how to help, where they fit, or what meaningful action looks like when it comes to domestic and family violence.

Many men do not see themselves as violent or abusive yet still feel unsettled by the prevalence of domestic violence in our communities. They love their wives, daughters, sisters, friends, and partners. But when harm happens close to home — within families, workplaces, churches, community or friendship groups — uncertainty often takes over. Is this really my place to intervene? What if I get it wrong?What if I make things worse?

This guide exists to help address that gap.

Available - March 2026